A family member of an Alberta man charged with the first-degree murder of a British Columbia police officer say the accused had been struggling since losing his wife four years ago.
In a statement, 65-year-old Oscar Arfmann’s sister-in-law said he “was really never the same” after his wife died in 2013.
It said Arfmann was admitted to hospital in St. Paul, a town northeast of Edmonton, in July 2015 for a mental evaluation, but he was released three days later.
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The 53-year-old officer with 24 years on the job was critically injured while responding to a report of a possible stolen vehicle and shots fired at members of the public.
Arfmann’s family said it wants to extend its deepest condolences to Davidson’s family and the Abbotsford Police Department.
Arfmann remained in hospital on Tuesday and British Columbia’s civilian agency that investigates police actions resulting in serious harm or death has said it’s believed he was shot.
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The statement released by Arfmann’s sister-in-law on behalf of the family said Arfmann continued to struggle with mental health issues after being released from hospital in 2015.
“Family members had tried to seek help for him but he refused to go to the doctor,” the statement reads.
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Hope Arfmann said she married Oscar when she was 18 but the marriage lasted less than three years because he was emotionally abusive.
The couple lived in the small hamlet of Sunnybrook, Alta., and also on a farm near Millet, where she said he would hunt small rodents and birds.
“The birds deserted the area, the squirrels, the gophers — anybody and everybody spread the word: stay away from that area,” she said.
She said their split was tense and she suffered a medical condition that caused blackouts when she felt distressed.
“I wanted to leave and he decided to keep me from doing that,” she explained.
“I had been cutting up a roast at the table to make him a last lunch. And he says, ‘Well, you ain’t going unless I let you go, and I ain’t letting you go.’ And that’s all I heard. When my sensibility came back, there was a knife in the wall.”
However, she said the incident had been enough to bring about a change of mind on his part. She said in no time at all, he had packed up her belongings and driven her into Edmonton.
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After their split, their contact was limited, though they had a son together who she later gave up for adoption. Hope said after their divorce was made final by a Wetaskiwin court in the summer of 1975, Oscar married a woman named Patricia.
“I heard by the bye that they were still like honeymooners after 40 years,” she said. “I was tickled pink. He married the right person the second time. For some reason, they clicked.”
She said Oscar took Patricia’s death hard.
“The only thing that he really loved was Patricia,” she said.
Martin Thompson met Arfmann about four years ago, after his wife had passed. Arfmann worked as a handyman “on and off” for Thompson.
“He seemed like a harmless enough person, a solid person, good heart. He’d help you out if he could… I did see the changes in him. I saw him losing it… Maybe it was like that all along.”
He recalled Arfmann having a new truck repossessed and struggling to get to work.
“I saw a quick spiral down,” Thompson said. “He sold his place, he disappeared. I thought, ‘We’re never going to see this man again.'”
Court documents show Arfmann was sentenced May 2016 for impaired driving and his licence was suspended for 12 months and was required to pay a $1,000 fine. According to records, he filed for bankruptcy in 1992.
Thompson said Arfmann came back to visit this past summer and there were red flags as far as his mental health.
“We’d be watching TV after supper and he’d be talking to himself… inner demons and talking about weird things and he’d snap out of it, he’d apologize.”
Thompson said he would have rather seen Arfmann get treatment instead of ending up in prison.
“If anything, this side of the story should be shown — the mental health issue. The mental health part of it,” he said. “The whole thing is just sad.”
— With files from The Canadian Press’ Gwen Dambrofsky and Global News
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