A B.C. mom says she will do anything to help her son get treatment overseas.
“He’s beautiful, he’s kind, he’s loving,” Natasha Hepburn said. “He loves playing with his brother. He loves going to the playground, just being silly. He talks about growing up and what he wants to be when he’s older.
“He’s just a happy child, a happy, wonderful child,”
But Hepburn is worried her son may not get the chance to grow up.
Her now nine-year-old son, Nathan, had a seizure in 2021 and she noticed he was having staring spells.
He was later diagnosed with brain arteriovenous malformation, AVM, which is a rare and life-threatening condition where abnormal blood vessels in the brain can rupture without warning. A bleed can cause permanent brain damage or be fatal.
“In 2023, the summer of 2023, his amazing, remarkable physicians, like they did everything; they tried radiation to treat his lesion,” Hepburn said.
“Unfortunately, his lesion didn’t respond. And you know, there’s just something to do with the biology of his lesion; it didn’t show any treatment response. Six months passed, and we’re continuing to monitor and he developed significant brain swelling, and he had left-sided weakness. And then we were told that he has developed an aneurysm that’s bleeding.”
Hepburn said they took Nathan on an emergency flight to Toronto and a team of neurosurgeons saved his life by successfully embolizing the aneurysm and stopping the bleed.
“They saved his life,” she said. “And I’m convinced if he was anywhere else in the world, this wouldn’t be done. It’s because of their skill level and just how fast they acted.”
However, the lesion wasn’t gone and Hepburn said her son experienced significant side effects. He developed a clot in his femoral artery and was in excruciating pain.
“I can’t even like tell you, he couldn’t walk a block without screaming, like he was in excruciating pain,” Hepburn said.
“This extended his hospital stay, and he had to get injections for months on end to dissolve the clot, and eventually it did dissolve, but I don’t know if we can use that access site anymore.”
Now, every three months, Nathan gets follow-up MRIs to see if the lesion will respond to the radiation, but there has been no change and has even had micro-hemorrhages, indicating that the lesion is becoming more unstable.
“It is a ticking time bomb, because you never know when this lesion can rupture,” Hepburn said.
“It could rupture when you’re sleeping. It could rupture when you’re eating, when he’s at school. You know, it can go off at any time. And a lesion in the thalamus, it’s.. he’ll lose his life. You know, he will lose his life if it ruptures, or he’ll have significant neurological effects.”
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Hepburn said they needed to look for any other potential treatment options.
“What can I do as a mother to help my child, you know, because living with this condition, with this ticking time bomb in his brain, it could go off at any time,” she said.
“It’s not easy. Every day we live with fear. Every day we live with fear, with the anxiety (that) any time he has a headache or he says ‘My head hurts’ or he’s feeling unwell, my heart literally drops to my stomach and I think, is this going to be the day that I lose my child, you know, is this going to be the day that my precious child is no longer with me?”
She came across an article by Dr. Rene Chabot, an interventional radiologist in Germany who has pioneered a new embolic agent called Obtura. It works like glue, so anytime a brain is bleeding, they can inject the glue into the blood vessels to stop the bleed or close it off.
“It could save his life, because it’s very different than the embolic agents or glues that we have here in North America,” Hepburn said.
“So this doctor, he pioneered an approach called transvenous embolization. And he’s treated these lesions before. He’s treated complex lesions of this nature many times, like 50 times before. And he’s shown me, he’s shown me other cases that were very similar to Nathan’s that he treated effectively.”
Hepburn said Chabot told her that he is highly confident that Nathan can be cured with his method.
“Hearing that as a mother, you just, you feel so hopeful, but at the same time, there’s the uncertainty of, how are we going to afford it?” she added.
The treatment costs about $61,000 each time and depending how Nathan responds to treatment, he may need between three and five treatments.
The neurosurgical team from Vancouver and Toronto has written letters and applied to the B.C. government to help fund Nathan’s treatment.
Hepburn has also started a GoFundMe.
“He’s my child,” she said. “Every day we’ve been living with this and just wondering how long do we keep this ticking time bomb before it goes off and he loses his life like many others before him?”
“It’s very hard when you know, when you have an expert, a pioneer in the field, telling you that they have an effective treatment available and they can help your child, and you’re worried that he may not be able to access the care that he needs because of finances.”
Hepburn said that initially, she didn’t even think about the price as she was so hopeful they might have found a cure.
“When reality set in, it was scary,” she added. “It was very scary. I was just thinking, how am I going to do this? You know, as a single mom working a full-time job, taking care of two boys.”
Hepburn said the treatment is not available in Canada, so they contacted Health Minister Josie Osborne in January, but have yet to hear back.
Osborne’s office confirmed to Global News that they did receive the application, but not to make travel plans until they hear back.
Hepburn said they don’t have the luxury of time.
“He could lose his life while I wait and if I don’t act as a mother and I just put it on the back burner and just wait, what if he loses his life in that interim?” she said.
“I don’t want to wake up one day and have regrets that my child passed away, knowing an effective treatment is available.”
Hepburn says Nathan knows something is wrong with his brain, but they try to keep some details from him as he’s so young.
“He has to get MRIs every month and a half to three months, under general anesthesia. He comes out screaming and crying, confused. You know, it’s been very hard on him, very hard on him, and hard on me, as his mother, watching him go through that,” she said.
“If I could change places with him, I would.”
Hepburn added that this condition has robbed her son of his childhood.
“He has somebody with him at all times monitoring him,” she said.
“He gets a headache, we have to go to the hospital. He gets MRI scans every three months. He’s endured more pain than any child should at his age. You know, with the treatment, there comes complications, and he endured a lot of pain following it, but the AVM still isn’t gone. It’s there, and now we have a path forward. We have a path forward, and I feel strongly that we need to take it.
“Every child deserves the chance to grow up. Nathan deserves that chance.”
It could help if she spent on her son the amounts she has paid for all her cosmetic procedures such as both and fillers.
At JV -fish on the line! Lol
Success and love must really bother you for you to make a reply like.
Imagine thinking that you’re better than others because you’re white and you think you pay more taxes than everyone else lol. What an idiot. That’s Doug Brekfaust from West Vancouver
Doug B – and you have some triggered reply about playing golf with your loser friends. Actually you probably play by yourself. I bet you suck at golf to. Anyways I won’t bother reading the rest. It’s all just pointless old white man slop
Doug B – You heard me old man. What’s that? Something about your mail order bride? Lol
Why are some of these medications so dam expensive, once they get the formula they should be able to bang them out like a pizza
At JV – Shut Up? Look at is talking?
I keep telling I am married to a person of color.
What you do is matter to me not what ethnicity you are!
At Nacho given most FN kids are born with FAS yeah it would be a good start l.
JV sorry I was busy playing golf with my friends at my private WV club . I have to run to meet my ski buddies at Earls Ambleside now.
Probably end up at the Rigger for night caps.
I have the whitecaps game tomorrow with my soccer buddies.
I’ll be sure drive by Cap Rez and throw my empties in the ditch for your relatives to collect.
JV the racist indian………….. Do you feel the same way about indian children being aborted? When you say every child matters is it only indian children or EVERY child?
JV the racist indian….. If mom wants to abort her body that’s fine but why should the baby get the death sentence and mom is spared?
nacho business – That’s not your decision to make though is it. It’s the woman’s decision to make. That’s why abortion is legal in Canada. We allow our citizens to make their own decisions. I know That’s difficult for a follower like you to understand. You whiteboys like being told what to do by your Christian leaders
Every baby in the womb deserves life as well. Ban abortion of babies and choose adoption instead.
Charles – You say that because you have zero emotions. You’re just another white trash clown full of misery and hatred. You and Doug Brekfaust should hang out. I doubt either of you have any friends
JV; you’re too emotional to make rational decisions. The bleeding hearts is what got us into this mess to begin with.
Can’t grow up in Canada… Being an adult is unaffordable.
Doug B – Shut up you miserable clown. I know it hurts to hear but nobody cares about your Conservative white trash opinion. Go spread your bitterness and hatred towards others somewhere else
I WOULD LIKE TO HELP IF WE COULD GET A NUMBER OF PEOPLE TOGETHER
Sorry for your situation. I truly am.
But if you want that treatment pay for it yourself. I know a few families right now who can’t simple Operations or treatment for their kids because of funding or beds are that are jammed up with near untreatable conditions and short life span probabilities. I know that hurts to hear.
I am sorry but the needs of many should be above the needs of the few. You can’t help everyone.