The intensive care unit is not where Nancy Michalik would spend one of the most important days of her life, although she conceded “it brings back a smile and gets me through the dark days”
In May, Nancy’s longtime boyfriend Kevin MacKenzie went to the QEII hospital in Halifax with back pain. His diagnosis was terminal.
“It was only 22 days from the time he had his back pain until the last day,” she said. “That ended seven-and-a-half years of lovely memories.
“He loved life. He lived life to the fullest. He was a prankster extraordinaire as all his friends would attest. He made me laugh every day.”
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Hospital staff heard of Kevin’s dying wish to marry his longtime girlfriend and went out of their way to make it happen.
“They had flowers and music, and soft lighting and they thought of everything. Cake, candles, a toast,” says Nancy.
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“It also brings some comfort and closure to the healthcare team that’s caring for the patient at the time,” says QEII critical care physician Dr. Jennifer Hancock.
“In the end, it all left us with an indelible sense of making patients’ lives better, even if we can’t extend the length,” says QEII critical care physician Dr. Sarah McMullen.
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Kevin MacKenzie proposed in the morning, wed in the afternoon and died just over an hour after the cermony with his wife at his side. He was 55.
“From the look on his face, the smile, I’m thinking it made his passing very peaceful and comforting as well,” Nancy says.
–With files from Dave Squires.