Just over two years after a London woman went missing, her family is, once again, marking her birthday. On Sunday, Feb. 4, Shelley Desrochers turned 44. This is the third year in a row Desrochers’ family will commemorate her birthday without her.
“When she was around we would get together and go out for dinner, spend quality time together,” said Shelley’s sister Laura.
“It was her birthday, so I just needed to let her know that she’s loved and cared for.”
That’s a message she still wants her sister to hear today.
Shelley went missing in January of 2016. Since then her family, along with London police, have worked tirelessly to try to find out what happened.
“We’ve constantly been trying to solve Shelley’s case and helping out in any way we can,” said Laura. “We’re hoping someone comes forward to give some clue or idea of what happened to Shelley. Although we have lots of leads, we’re still looking for more.”
The family has had its ups and downs, said Laura, and they’re still dealing with grieving.
“For me, some days, I wish she would just walk through that door and just say ‘I moved on. I went to school. I did something good for myself,'” said Laura.
“But the day I sat down and I provided my DNA for the police, at that moment, I knew I was never going to see her again.”
While the family does wish for Shelley’s safe return, Laura feels with everything that’s been said, the possibility is slim.
“It was the hardest day of my life. It was kind of like this is the answer. The answer was that my blood — that I was giving — was going to solve her murder one day. That’s all I could think of.”
In remembrance and to recognize Desrochers’s birthday, the family has decorated a commemorative bench at Rayner Gardens on Springbank Drive.
On Jan. 2, 2018 — the second anniversary of the day Desrochers was last confirmed to have been seen — London police began a poster and social media blitz in hopes of uncovering new information or leads into Shelley’s case. Officers said they received close to a dozen tips.
Desrochers is described as Caucasian, 5-foot-2 and 130 pounds with hazel eyes. At the time of her disappearance, she had long brown hair.
She has a distinctive walking style, described as being “pigeon-toed,” and has various visible tattoos which include a rose, a heart and a bluebird.
She was known to struggle with addiction and lived a high risk lifestyle, leaving investigators very concerned about her well-being.
The London Police Service tip line is (519) 660-5842 or anyone wishing to remain anonymous can call Crime Stoppers at 1-800-222-TIPS (8477) or go online here.